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Reducing Your Risk
According to the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN),
someone is sexually assaulted in the United States every two
minutes (RAINN calculation based on USDOJ NCVS data). By being
prepared, alert and assertive, you can reduce your risk of being
sexually assaulted.
Be Assertive
Being assertive means that you state what
you want. Remember, “No” means “No.” If you do not want to be
intimate with another person, tell him or her clearly. Use a
confident voice and body posture. Match your body language to
your words—don’t laugh and smile while saying “No.” Do not just
“go along” for the wrong reasons. Watch out for warning signs
or “red flags” from your partner in intimate situations. You
should be especially alert if the person you are with:
- Ignores, interrupts, or makes fun of
you
- Sits or stands too close to you or
stares at you
- Has a reputation for being a “player”
- Drinks too much or uses drugs; tries
to get you to use drugs or alcohol
- Tries to touch or kiss you or gets
into your “personal space” when you barely know him or her
- Wants to be alone with you before
getting to know you, or pressures you to be alone together
- Does what he or she wants without
asking what you want
- Gets angry or sulks if he or she
doesn’t get what he or she wants
- Pressures you to have sex, or tries to
make you feel guilty for saying “No.”
Be Prepared
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Travel with a buddy.
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Stay in groups, as there is safety in
numbers.
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Plan your outings and avoid getting
into a bad situation.
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Stay sober. Studies indicate that
about half of all U.S. sexual assaults involve the use of
alcohol.
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Never leave a drink unattended.
Educate yourself about date rape drugs.
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Walk only in lighted areas after dark.
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Keep the doors to homes, barracks, and
cars locked.
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Know where the phone is located.
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Don’t go anywhere alone with someone
unless you know the person very well and trust him or her.
Be Alert
Trust your instincts. If a place or person
feels unsafe, it probably is. Watch for signs of trouble such
as strangers in private areas or persons loitering where they
shouldn’t be. If you sense trouble, get to a safe place as soon
as possible. If you feel you are in danger, attract help any
way you can. According to The Acting Secretary of the Army’s
Task Force Report on Sexual Assault Policies, from 1999 to 2004,
67% of the sexual assaults involving military personnel occurred on
post. Report any unauthorized or suspicious males or females in
the barracks.
Reducing Your Risk in a Deployed
Environment
Be especially prepared and alert in
deployed environments. Deployed environments can present
special risks for military personnel:
- Sleeping areas (tents, bunkers, and
other buildings) may be less secure in a deployed
environment. Report any unauthorized males or females in
sleeping areas.
- Many non-military personnel are present in
deployed unit and working areas
- Be alert and aware of your
surroundings. Deployed environments may have different
lighting conditions and facilities than those in garrison.
- Stay sober. Studies indicate that
about half of all U.S. sexual assaults involve the use of
alcohol.
To reduce your
risk in a deployed environment, travel with a buddy.
Source:
www.sexualassault.army.mil |